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Do you feel that you are perfect the way you are and nothing

I am "content" with the way I am and who I am. That is not the same as perfect. I don't aim to be perfect since it would be a wasted effort. I aim to be the best me I can be and there is always room for improvement.
As for changing, I worked a long time on becoming me... someone I like and can feel good about...so.. I am perfect for me, but not perfect.

NOPE! I know what I feel like when I feel "perfect" (my idea of perfect that is) and it's not now. "I've slipped from my throne" so to speak and unfortunately, I have the ability to let one failure affect the rest of my life. Confidence, sense of humour, understanding, kindness... all gone out the window. Seeing things through the wrong lenses at the moment. But I will get back to me, and hopefully, be in a state of permanent POSITIVE growth, not susceptible to any DE-GROWTH. Be kind to yourself everybody!

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Everyone has experienced this feeling at some level, or the opposite. The more mature of us have enough insight to see oneself more objectively, strengths and weaknesses, positives and negatives.

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ok suppose there was a machine that figured out how fast your brain can solve a math problem. Lets say the best, most "perfect" math expert on earth can solve 58 divided by 300 in .2 seconds -- according to the machine.

Since time can get infinitely small or big (it really is just numbers) then there is always room for improvement for the math expert.
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the point of what is just said is that it is most likely impossible to achieve perfection (possibly physically -- because part of one's attraction to someone else is symmetry and specific proportions that the human eye "likes", but not mentally) and it depends what your definition of perfection is.

So since it is impossible, I am not perfect, and neither is anyone else.

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YES, Twenty four hours of EVERY day There is no soul on earth like ME

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Right now I feel I am where i'm suppose to be. I'm not pefect I don't believe, I think we don't know what perfect really is.

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No way ! In fact I don't like myself at all. There is so much I want to change from outside in. I have become a very unhappy person and I dont want to live any longer. I will NOT committ suicide but I am looking forward to end of life.

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Not at all - change is constant - enjoy!

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